Dear darlings,
I am suddenly inspired to write another lovey dovey post. It is not because I am in love or what so ever, but its because of what I have been seeing these past few weeks or even months, and these things just spurs the feelings and emotions inside me, and it got my head thinking all over again- just what on earth is love?
"Love is a just a word till someone gives a meaning to it". Yes this is absolutely correct, and this may be the precise reason that love is simply a word to me right now, that I am having trouble understanding it( that is till my prince charming comes along).
Sometimes I am just glad of being single, cause being in love makes people look silly. Yet, I miss being in love because theres always someone there for me to fight with over practically nothing at all, of course this is just one of the silly reasons!
I believe in unconditional love, I believe most of us do, but how many people out there actually practice it and not just believing. Unconditional love is all about sacrificing for one another, its about giving and NOT taking/demanding. Human by nature they are selfish, thats why there will come a point where you will just stop and think:" Why am I the only one giving? Why should I give when my other half is not doing his/her part at all?" and all kind of selfish one-sided thoughts.
And when we start having such thoughts, trouble comes. It is simply because our trust for the other half falls. Then all the quarrel and fights will all come in. WHY? It is because you gave in to your thinking, your mind and you stop listening to your heart!
To me love is all about listening to your heart, following your heart and not your brain! That's because love starts from the heart and not your brain! So just chuck you whatever thinking(be it right or wrong) aside and listen to heart. There is NO right or wrong in love, because Love is a feeling.
"Never question yourself whether you are in love or not, because if you were you wouldn't even need to ask." I read this phrase from somewhere, and I do agree with it. I can't explain why, but this phrase is kind of true isn't it.
Jealousy in a relationship is common, who doesn't get jealous? But being too much is absurb! And what triggers jealously? It is once again your trust towards ur other half.
I dragged this post for too long till I don't know what else to write, but I shal end it with my perception in love.
To me love is all about unconditional giving, trust, understanding, faithfulness, sacrifices, honesty(damn, I hate liars, but a white lie is ok), being there for one another, quarreling and laughing at each other silliness, tears, happiness, acknowledging, being proud of my other half, treasuring and cherishing each other, AND most importantly telling the world how much I love him.
I am suddenly inspired to write another lovey dovey post. It is not because I am in love or what so ever, but its because of what I have been seeing these past few weeks or even months, and these things just spurs the feelings and emotions inside me, and it got my head thinking all over again- just what on earth is love?
"Love is a just a word till someone gives a meaning to it". Yes this is absolutely correct, and this may be the precise reason that love is simply a word to me right now, that I am having trouble understanding it( that is till my prince charming comes along).
Sometimes I am just glad of being single, cause being in love makes people look silly. Yet, I miss being in love because theres always someone there for me to fight with over practically nothing at all, of course this is just one of the silly reasons!
I believe in unconditional love, I believe most of us do, but how many people out there actually practice it and not just believing. Unconditional love is all about sacrificing for one another, its about giving and NOT taking/demanding. Human by nature they are selfish, thats why there will come a point where you will just stop and think:" Why am I the only one giving? Why should I give when my other half is not doing his/her part at all?" and all kind of selfish one-sided thoughts.
And when we start having such thoughts, trouble comes. It is simply because our trust for the other half falls. Then all the quarrel and fights will all come in. WHY? It is because you gave in to your thinking, your mind and you stop listening to your heart!
To me love is all about listening to your heart, following your heart and not your brain! That's because love starts from the heart and not your brain! So just chuck you whatever thinking(be it right or wrong) aside and listen to heart. There is NO right or wrong in love, because Love is a feeling.
"Never question yourself whether you are in love or not, because if you were you wouldn't even need to ask." I read this phrase from somewhere, and I do agree with it. I can't explain why, but this phrase is kind of true isn't it.
Jealousy in a relationship is common, who doesn't get jealous? But being too much is absurb! And what triggers jealously? It is once again your trust towards ur other half.
I dragged this post for too long till I don't know what else to write, but I shal end it with my perception in love.
To me love is all about unconditional giving, trust, understanding, faithfulness, sacrifices, honesty(damn, I hate liars, but a white lie is ok), being there for one another, quarreling and laughing at each other silliness, tears, happiness, acknowledging, being proud of my other half, treasuring and cherishing each other, AND most importantly telling the world how much I love him.
